

You have the right
to judge your own behavior, thoughts, and emotions, and to take the
responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself.
You have the right
to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behavior.
You have the right
to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other people's
problems.
You have the right
to make mistakes--and be responsible for them.
You have the right
to say, "I don't know."
You have the right
to be illogical in making decisions.
You have the right
to say, "I don't understand."
You have the right
to say, "That is unacceptable to me."
You have the right
to say, "I don't care."
We have the right
to have needs and to have those needs be as important as other people's
needs.
We have the right
to ask other people to respond to our needs.
We have the right
to have feelings--and to express these feelings in ways which do not violate
the dignity of other people.
We have the right
to decide whether we'ill meet other people's expectations or whether we'ill
act in ways which fit us, as long as we act in ways which don't violate
other people's rights.

YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY ,
WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY!  
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